Fly Away Home – DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version, HD Ready:720p (Super Quality)
24 novembre, 2009
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IMDB rating: 6.80 Plot: Amy (Anna Paquin) is reunited with her father (Jeff Daniels) after her mother’s death. She withdraws from her new life, and life in general, until she finds a reason to participate in something: the preservation, parenting, and eventual migration-instruction of a flock of orphaned geese. |
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Actors: Daniels Jeff,Kinney Terry,Graham Holter,Ratchford Jeremy,Reynolds Michael J.,Hemblen David,James Ken,,
My sister is falling for a "possible" predator??? Help!?
My younger sister, who lives with me in a two bedroom apartment and is 20, is currently dating a guy she met online (in a chat room). She has never met this guy and has been speaking to him on the phone for about 3 months. She made plans to meet this guy on a getaway vacation to Disneyworld, which is about 2 – 3,000 miles away from home. After much concern, our family intervened and told her to not go due to not knowing anything about this individual. None of us (family or friends) have ever spoken a single word to him, and yet my sister is persistent that it is true love and is now requesting for me to make room in my apartment for him for a week.
Now, this is where it gets complicated. At first, this guy did not have ANY money in September at all that he could not drive down to see her, then all of a sudden he had money in October to take my sister to Disneyworld??? Now, this guy is pressuring my sister in convincing me to allow this bloodsucker to stay at my apartment (and I say mine, since I primarily pay ALL the bills, my sister owes me months worth). My answer was NO! I will allow him to visit but not stay; COME ON HE IS A STRANGER TO ME! But my thing is, now all of a sudden in November he doesn’t have money yet again?!?! But he somehow had money just a month ago to fly her and take her to DIsneyworld with him? I don’t think this is a pretty picture. I have a suspicion this guy is a nut job, but my stupid sister won’t drop him and does not want to admit that maybe he is lying about a lot of things. His past sounds iffy, she also is not consistent with her stories. It feels as if I am trying to protect her from a possible predator that is online. She doesn’t want to see the ugly signs, but I am more scared she is gonna bring this possible psycho to MY HOME! I put my foot down, but I am scared of waking up and seeing someone I don’t want to in my home. What should I do? I have spoken to her kindly for months and I try to see her way,but she does not want to see mine.
What would you do? How would you approach it? Also, if you made reservations for a vacation at Disneyworld, do you really need to leave a certain amount of money in order to reserve it? Or is it like a card where your credit card is recorded and then the amount will be removed once you leave?
Hi, they take your credit card number!! What is wrong with him?? For $19.95 you can go online to one of the criminal search sites and run him. You can do that on other sites and find out all sorts of things about him. You need to know his whole name, IF the name he is using is his own. His birthday would help a lot also…then the city and state he is residing in. Better safe than sorry!! If he doesn’t have a consistent cash flow, I’m wondering why he doesn’t? There are too many RED FLAGS!! I totally agree with you. This guy is a looser. He should never ask to stay at your apartment. He should have gotten a hotel room, rented a car, etc. That’s a given!! Just try the search on the guy! More than likely, you will end up with some ‘good’ Information. Then, show it to her. No matter how much you try to convince her, she won’t listen. Showing her proof in black and white is something she cannot deny. If you don’t come up with anything on him, he’s probably using another name. I can’t imagine that someone acting the way he is wouldn’t have some adverse information online. Then, you will have to put your foot down, make him get his own room etc., invite him to a family get together so EVERYONE can meet him!! If he’s a phony he can only play it for so long before he’ll trip up and show his true colors. No gentleman would pressure his girlfriend into allowing him stay at the apartment. What a nurd!! GOOD LUCK!! JOSA
| Nov 17, 2009
Tell her no he gets a motel.If he is a decent guy he should be able to scrape up enough money to drive down to see her and to rent a motel for a week they have weekly rates.
Tell her this is how it is period.Next find out who he is and do a criminal background check, he may be a decent guy,just poor.
My wife and I met on the internet in a Christian chat room, we have been married over 7 yrs now.Doesn’t seem like it has been that long at all.
Joe F | Nov 17, 2009
tell the cops about it, they’ll put an end to it.
Pearl L | Nov 17, 2009
i wouldnt let him see her at all
Ashlea | Nov 17, 2009
You really can’t do much, your sister is 20, you have no control over who is in her life. I agree with you the guy seems like a creep, and sketchy at best, but this is your sister’s life she needs to learn for herself what kind of guy he is. The only say you have is whether or not he enters your home. Since you own your home, and you have no idea who this guy is or what he’s capable of, you have every right to forbid him from entering your home. If that were me, I’d tell my sister to meet this guy anywhere if she wants, but a) don’t come crying to me if it doesn’t work out b) don’t bring this guy into my home. Thats really all anyone in this sitatuation can do.
James | Nov 17, 2009
Three months is a long time.
If he started with lies he is the best con man I ever heard of. His story would have unraveled by now. He couldn’t keep his BS straight and still manage to be personal enough to hold her interest.
Stop focusing on how they met. Studies show people are more likely to be "real" online because they nothing to fear from others. A predator would never waste the time he has invested. Predators are selfish and don’t lurk in the long term.
Let the finance side of this rest. If he stays for a week you will know exactly what he is like.
You should get to know the man as opposed to the impression. Stop sitting in judgment of everything. Your sister will have a hard time forgiving you for trashing her love-life.
Dan the man | Nov 17, 2009
I don’t agree with what some other people are saying on here. I don’t think you should let him into your house in order to get to know him because you don’t know if he is a rapist or something. That’s something I’d worry about with your sister, too. It sounds like he doesn’t want to meet her in her area because she has resources there if he does do anything bad, but if she’s in somewhere she’s not familiar with she’s not as likely to escape or turn him in or whatever. Would they be getting a hotel room together at disney? At least it’s a very public place. That will keep her safer. But if they are going to be alone in the same hotel room–that’s bad news. If you can’t stop her from going, at least convince her to take some precautions such as her own room.
Moky G | Nov 17, 2009
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